LOVE it! Because it does feel that way some times. And hey sometimes when you get a BFP (or BF-Maybe) in my case it's still sucki.
I've heard the homestudy process is invasive but they really dig into your family history like that? I know my family definitely has some skeletons in the closet, or shall I say closetS? Whatever. I'm willing to give it a try and if we get denied because of something ignorant like that, then so be it. I mean, what other choices do we have? The agency were doing the webinar with is liberal meaning that they allow gay/lesbian couples and singles adopt and don't go into the whole church thing like some agencies do. I've read a few things online about homestudies and I really think it varies from agency to agency how invasive they really are. Our GP and RE are 2 different offices so I don't think they'd have any clue. We're planning on starting the adoption process before the next cycle with the physical in mind. We may be able to use the physicals we both recently had completed anyway, which would definitely be a good thing. Thanks for the thoughts!
Oh, and I thought of you this morning when the radio people were talking about the Flaming Lips show out here. You know, what you said about "doing" Wayne Coyne. You know he's a total freak in the bedroom. Seriously. I wouldn't expect anything short of robots and weird costumes from him. Freak with a capital F. Anyway, if you ever make your way to Chicago, we're meeting. ;)
I apologize. You said doing Wayne would be too weird. Yeah, I agree. I'm sure things would always be interesting with the robots and costumes. I need to read my comments better before I have diarrhea chachacha of the mouth. Piece.
@ASP - I have read in a few places that home studies are like getting an annulment - every thumbsucking episode and unnecessary spanking you ever got may be questioned, and you have to write a lengthy "What I did last summer (and the 30+ years prior)" essay including details of your relationship with your family. Uh, great. Thing is, I figure you could gloss over the ickier bits and I doubt they can do much about it (how would they refute?). I am not close with my family so they would be absent this process and I would chalk it up to them being self-centered pricks uninterested in my life (no lie there).And...though I said I wouldn't bump uglies with Mr. Coyne, knowing that he's a capital-F-Freak in bed might intrigue me enough to think about it. Or not. Just sayin'. And I head down to Chicago a few times a year for concerts or whatever, so we ARE totally meeting up.@Everyone else: sorry for the lewd bit about sexing the Flaming Lips. If you don't know what that means, then nevermind. If you do, I hope you accept my apology.
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